The results of some decisions are not known until later. So if the decision making process is wrong, the outcome will be blur. You're not in Relationship to "prove". If you're seeking Relationship so as to prove to your friends, enemies and "enemies" that you're now "better", you're not doing well.
Don't let the "Push" of men make you forget the purpose of going into the Relationship in the first place. After you have "prove" to them with shawarma, Coldstone Pictures, Kilmanjaro pics, and Zuma Rock Chilling, what else?
Don't eat much of ice cream and forget to scream at the "red flags". In the end, it will not be push of the "people" you want to prove to, but your fault.
Don't be pressured because "they" are trooping in, while you wait. God's Calendar for us is Different. Even if they are running with His Calendar or not, till appreciate them but don't be Pressured.
And if you hold Wedding Ceremony because you want them to "see" that "your head is there", don't forget to invest in the marriage which is very important. Nobody will ask you how you lay your Foundation on your wedding day, but your building Materials will show up after the Wedding Day.
As much as you love "show off" also learn to be private. Not everyone who say congratulations really mean it. Wisdom guides are children.
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Are you sure you're in that Relationship by Leading of God or because you just want to?
Are you sure you can see your future in that "person" you claim to "love"?
Are you sure you're in love or in fear? When you're afraid of your "lover" then something is wrong 😁. Perfect Love chase out fear.
I just thought to remind you!
Jesus loves you.
If you're not born again.
Jesus is waiting for you to come.
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