1Cor 13vs5-7
1 Corinthians 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
13:7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
The understanding of "romance" have been mis-define. Just because a particular idea or concept is from abroad doesn't it has an agreement with God's will. The heart of men had be programmed towards fornication and "porn" but romance is actually a life style. A responsibility that is geared towards a responsible lifestyle. Sex is not Romance, not is it hugging. It is a great misconception. The world shows that to be romantic, you have to "read" sex novels, sending nudes pictures and the likes, but this is far from the truth. If you can understand this pattern of romance that is Godify, it will you to balance without default.
1. Words. "Let your words be season with grace. How do you speak. Chose wonderful words, not "sexy words". Thank you, I'm sorry, I appreciate you... Is a form form of romantic.
2. Show Affection
Affection is the exhibition of kindness. Be kind in word, in attitude. Be concerned about his concern. Let her concern be your concern. Take them as your burden. By this, you are being romantic. She sees you as someone who actually she can find herself.
3. Gifting
Make some surprise gifting. Recharge card, few gifts that could give him or her a sense of love.
4. Communication
No genuine relationship will thrive without communication. It must be done often regardless of your busy schedule. Find time to discuss, and talk.
What are you communicating?
Communicate visions, Purpose, Spiritual Growth, plans towards marriage (if the relationship is approved by God).
5. Sing A Song
For some of us who knows how to sing love song, not "immoral songs" "nor sexy" songs. But songs that brings a sense of understanding, and a reason of belonging. He or she might actually love it. You can compose a simple song, just to show your love.
6. Poem.
She might be a lover of poem. It sticks to the brain than gift sometimes. If you can make some poems, write. Send as message or article. When he or she reads it, it brings a love-joy.
7. Understand each other love language and reciprocate it.
Lemme say something, in the school of romance there are some course you are not permitted to take as long as you are single. One of it is "touching". But when you get married, all courses are yours. In the process of touching, you wake the emotions for pleasures. Wisdom is profitable for directions.
8. Compliments
You look good
Say nice words.
Appreciate his little effort.
9. Talk about purpose.
Some of us are purpose driven. Sometimes we find joy in discussing purpose. It also a sign of romance.
10. Verbalise Your Love.
He or she needs to hear it.
11. Pray for each other.
Prayer creates an unseen bonding. It breeds oneness.
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Sometimes we are being led by emotions/ feelings and not actually the Holy Ghost. Love goes beyond feelings, it is a responsibility. Love goes beyond physical structure, it brings a sense of capacity and acceptance.
Dating isn't a time to go and be cooking, washing his cloth... It not an occasion for cohabiting. It's a time for serious examination for a better future.
Is Jesus Involved?
God bless you!
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